19 Jul 2024
Swedish Valentine’s Vocabulary: Petnames
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Swedish Valentine’s Vocabulary: Petnames

It IS Valentine’s Day “Alla Hjärtans Dag”. And you’re in Sweden. So what are the Swedish equivalents of honey, doodley-bear, and schmuck-ums? YLC has your ultimate guide to sweet-talk, Swedish style.


From “älska”, to love. Equivalent to darling, honey. One of the most common terms of endearment in Swedish. But if you haven’t made it yet to Those Three Words, hold back from this one – as it does imply love. Pronounced “ehl-skling“.


Less common than älskling, slightly more old-fashioned perhaps, but still common. Sweetheart, dear one. “Raar-ing“, make sure to roll that middle r and don’t get it stuck in your throat. You’re in love, you’re not a tiger! (No rawrs!)


Literally “dearest”. Pretty self-explanatory. Remember, the k makes a ‘sh’ sound here, so it’s pronounced “sher-a-steh“.


This literally means “the heart”, and is another common term of endearment you can use with your significant other or a very close friend. “Yair-taht“.

Mitt hjärta, min skatt, mitt liv, mitt allt

Bring on the drama and romance. “My heart, my treasure, my life, my everything”. (Choose one, don’t pile them on all at once. Unless you’re about to propose.)


Gumman technically means old lady, and gubben means old man. But as a petname, it’s cute! We promise. This is a common one to use among friends, as well – at least the female version. Female friends will frequently call each other gumman, and guys will use the word with girlfriends as well. Using gubben for a guy is less common however, so be warned – gubben is more frequently used in reference to a male pet, like a dog. “Gu-mahn“, “gu-bin“.


Sweetie, sweet, sweetiepie. “Soot-ees“, “Soot-nuhs“.


Tasty, in noun form. Use with discretion. “Goh-ding“.


Hot, beautiful/handsome. Enough said. Remember to pucker your lips on that y. “Sneeg (pucker!) ing

Got your own terms of endearment? Let us know what you call your Swedish cupcake, your gorgeous muffin, in the comments below!


  • This article is hilarious and absolutely essential for expanding my Swedish.
    I promise to get started today.

  • Robert Frederick 31 Aug 2020

    my brother calls his Swedish wife ‘Guunta” or something similar sounding but i never ask what is means

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